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My Sex Life... or How I Got Into an Argument

6.519963h 1mMovieComedyDramaRomance

Paul Dedalus is at a crossroads in his life. He has to make several decisions; should he complete his doctorate, does he want to become a full professor, does he really love his long-standing girlfriend, or should he re-start with one of his other lovers?

DirectorArnaud Desplechin
WritersArnaud Desplechin·Emmanuel Bourdieu
ProducerPascal Caucheteux

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Cast · Directed by Arnaud Desplechin

MAMathieu Amalric
Mathieu Amalric
Paul Dédalus
EDEmmanuelle Devos
Emmanuelle Devos
Esther
ESEmmanuel Salinger
Emmanuel Salinger
Nathan
MDMarianne Denicourt
Marianne Denicourt
Sylvia
TMThibault de Montalembert
Thibault de Montalembert
Bob
CMChiara Mastroianni
Chiara Mastroianni
Patricia
DPDenis Podalydès
Denis Podalydès
Jean-Jacques
JBJeanne Balibar
Jeanne Balibar
Valérie
FD
Fabrice Desplechin
Ivan
HLHélène Lapiower
Hélène Lapiower
Le Mérou
MVMichel Vuillermoz
Michel Vuillermoz
Frédéric Rabier
RARoland Amstutz
Roland Amstutz
Chernov

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My Sex Life... or How I Got Into an Argument — streaming FAQ

Which OTT platform streams My Sex Life... or How I Got Into an Argument?

My Sex Life... or How I Got Into an Argument is streaming on Criterion Channel in United States. It's not currently on Netflix.

Is My Sex Life... or How I Got Into an Argument on Netflix?

No, My Sex Life... or How I Got Into an Argument is not on Netflix in United States as of September 2026. It's currently on Criterion Channel.

Is My Sex Life... or How I Got Into an Argument on Amazon Prime Video?

No, My Sex Life... or How I Got Into an Argument isn't on Amazon Prime Video in United States right now. It's on Criterion Channel instead.

Where can I watch My Sex Life... or How I Got Into an Argument for free?

My Sex Life... or How I Got Into an Argument is available on Criterion Channel in United States, but you'll need an active subscription — there's no free option right now.

Is there a sequel to My Sex Life... or How I Got Into an Argument?

Yes — My Sex Life... or How I Got Into an Argument is followed by A Christmas Tale (2008) in the Paul Dédalus Collection.

Is there a prequel to My Sex Life... or How I Got Into an Argument?

My Sex Life... or How I Got Into an Argument is the first film in the Paul Dédalus Collection.

Is My Sex Life... or How I Got Into an Argument part of a trilogy?

No — My Sex Life... or How I Got Into an Argument is part of the Paul Dédalus Collection, which has 4 films.

How many movies are in the Paul Dédalus Collection?

There are 4 films in the Paul Dédalus Collection: My Sex Life... or How I Got Into an Argument (1996), A Christmas Tale (2008), My Golden Days (2015) and Filmlovers! (2025).